Finally made the time to talk

I had a chance to spend some time and talk with the lady at school who lost her husband recently. We compared notes and found things we have in common and some things that are totally different in our experiences. Like I said no two deaths are the same. It was good talking with her and I hope I helped her some since I am further along in the grieving process than she is. I will make an effort to spend time with her. I'm sure it will help both of us. We both wish we didn't need to have these conversations, but the reality of it is, we do. So if you have any advice or ideas for us please send them along.